• Think about what you want to get out of your appointment - this will help you have a more productive conversation with your doctor

• Make a list of specific questions you have about your condition - to help you remember the information you need

• Bring a notepad or your phone on the day to jot down notes or important reminders during your consultation

Take your time

• Stay relaxed so that you remember the points you wanted to discuss

• Refer to your notes to keep the conversation on track

Be honest

• Don’t wait to be asked about a symptom or concern - tell your doctor or nurse what is on your mind

• Give as much information as possible by referring to your list of prepared questions 

Be open

• Tell your doctor or nurse how you are feeling and your overall wellbeing

• Be specific about what is affecting you

Keep a record

• Make notes on what you wanted to raise - particularly if you do not have time to discuss everything during the consultation

• If you have someone with you at the appointment, ask them to write notes for you

• Keep a record of any relevant documents - in case you need to refer to them later

Agree on next steps

• Set up a plan of action with your doctor

• Confirm your next appointment date - be clear on what you need to do before then

• Follow-up on any questions you have, or anything you do not understand

• It is important to be completely clear about your treatment or care plan

Reflect on key points

• Re-read the notes made during your appointment – did they make sense?

• Did you get answers to all your questions? Check if there’s anything missing

Update your family, friends or carer

• It might be useful to share the outcomes of your appointment with your family, friends or carer

• This keeps your loved ones informed about your treatment or care plan, so they are able to support you as needed

Follow-up appointments

• Think about what went well and what you would like to do differently at future appointments

• What questions would you have liked to ask? 

• Prepare a list of unanswered or new questions to raise at your next appointment

• What type of blood clot do I have and where is it located? 
• Why does having cancer increase the chance of developing a blood clot?
• Are certain cancers more likely to result in a blood clot?
• How can I prevent blood clots forming during cancer treatment?
• How will having a blood clot affect my cancer treatment? 
• What side effects can I expect from my treatment? 
• Can I still exercise? 
• Can I take other medications?
• What other sources of support are available to me?